Thursday, 28 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #100

Thank goodness for literature and authors, for their thoughts and ideas that you can hold onto and journey through life.

OF MICE AND MEN

Lennie stood over him. “What you supposin’ for? Ain’t nobody goin’ to suppose no hurt to George.” (Pg 126).

As happens sometimes, a moment settled and hovered and remained for much more than a moment. And sound stopped and movement stopped for much, much more than a moment. (Pg 161).

Steinbeck, John, 1902-1968. Of Mice and Men. New York, N.Y: Penguin Books, 2002.

VANITY OF DULUOZ

“...just so I could go to the Lowell Public Library and study by myself at leisure such things as old chess books with their fragrance of scholarly thought, their old bindings, leading me to investigate other fragrant old books like Goethe, Hugo, of all things the Maxims of William Penn, just reading to show off to myself that I was reading.” (Pg 27).

Writing your name on notebooks = “give some pretense of explanation for the material existence of this Journal”; “schoolboy stuff”. (Pg 30).

“Mens sana et mens corpora - healthy mind and healthy body.” (Pg 35).

“He combines all the excellence of a Greek, that is, the brain of an Athenian and the brawn of a Spartan.” (Pg 35).

You just can't run off a broken leg, (Pg 72).

If you don't say what you want, what's the sense of writing? (Pg 75).

Lights of the campus, lovers arm in arm, hurrying eager students in the flying leaves of late October, the library going with glow, all the books and pleasure and the big city of the world right at my broken feet... (Pg 76).

Ah that menace of monstrous rolling waves of gray water and spray, put me in the mind of something past and something future. (Pg 89).

What I was doing was telling everybody to go jump in the big fat ocean of their own folly. I was also telling myself to go jump in the big fat ocean of my own folly. What a bath! It was delightful. I washed clean. (Pg 93).

I hadn't learned anything in college that was going to help me to be a writer anyway and the only place to learn was in my own mind in my own real adventures: an adventurous education, an educational adventure-someness, name it. (Pg 168).

...somehow things were grand and forward-looking. (Pg 192).

...the tone of the period I was undergoing. (Pg 256).

It wasn't so much the darkness of the night that bothered me but the horrible lights men had invented to illuminate their darkness with...I mean the very streetlamp down at the end of the street. (Pg 260).

Emily Dickinson
Illiad/Odyssey
Jan Valtin's Out of the Night
Frank Sinatra with Tommy Dorsey The One I Love Belongs to Somebody Else and Everything Happens to Me
Charlie Barnet's Cherokee
This Love of Mine
Thomas Wolfe

Kerouac, Jack, 1922-1969. Vanity of Duluoz: An Adventurous Education, 1935-46. New York: Penguin Books, 1994.

MAGGIE CASSIDY

At the edge of the gang trudged Scotty, still alone, still inside. (Pg 10).

My love, my sick sense, of Maggie Cassidy had grown into a tumultuous continuous sorrow in my noisy head. The dreams, fantasie vagaries, wild drownings of the mind, as in real life I continued to go to school, hot spring mornings now outdoors, practically summer and no more school and I graduate from Lowell High. (Pg 158).

Kerouac, Jack, 1922-1969. Maggie Cassidy. New York, N.Y., U.S.A: Penguin Books, 1993.

THE GOLF OMNIBUS

They were real golfers, for real golf is a thing of the spirit, not of mere mechanical excellence of sport. (Pg 38).

In all affairs of human tension there must come a breaking point. (Pg 41).

It was during the long hours of the night, when ideas so often come to wakeful men... (Pg 42).

It is sweet and generous of you to think so highly of what was the merest commonplace act of politeness... (Pg 69).

He was no prude, but he had those decent prejudices that no self-respecting man can wholly rid himself, however broad-minded he may try to be. (Pg72).

"But I can't talk, confound it!" he burst out. "And how is a man to get anywhere at this sort of game without talking? " (Pg 80).

Golf, my dear fellow, is the infallible test. The man who can go into a patch of rough alone, with the knowledge that only God is watching him, and play his ball where it lies, is the man who will serve you faithfully and well. (Pg 93).

It is only when he takes to the game in earnest that he becomes self-conscious and anxious, and tops his shots even as you and I (Pg 122-123).

"A goof," repeated the Sage. "One of those unfortunate beings who have allowed this noblest of sports to get a grip upon them, who have permitted it to eat into their souls,  like some malignant growth. The goof, you must understand,  is not like you and me. He broods. He becomes morbid. His goofery unfits him for the battle of life." (Pg 160)

I can't be expected to fling myself into his arms unless he gives some sort of a hint that he's ready to catch me (Pg 163).

I'd rather die an awful death than have any man think I wanted him so badly that I had to send relays of messengers begging him to marry me (Pg 163).

There are occasions when an oath seems to be so imperatively demanded that the strain of keeping it in must inevitably affect the ganglions or nerve-centres in such a manner as to diminish the steadiness of the swing (Pg 210).

I mean, there's such a thing as a fellow throwing himself away (Pg 236).

It is better to travel hopefully than to arrive, and at last this great truth had come home to Wallace Chesney (Pg 240).

Wodehouse, P. G. 1881-1975. The Golf Omnibus. London: Barrie & Jenkins, 1973.

The Non-Facebook Post #99

There are some days when you just feel like pumping junk, unhealthy food into your system. Stress-coping mechanism? So, here's to a lunch of chocolate and coca cola instead of my typical strawberries.

Also, wow, this week flew by fast. 

Wednesday, 27 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #98

"Make yourself better today than you were yesterday. That's a good thing to do."

And,

"Treat people the way you want to be treated everyday, every time."


Jamie Dimon. 05/27/2015. Bernstein 31st Annual Strategic Decisions Conference.

Tuesday, 26 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #97

Me: I'm angry.
I don't even know why.
Mom: Yeah, that too happens to you; tiredness and less food makes you irritable and angry, better to take proper sleep.

I don't know.

The Non-Facebook Post #96

It's raining hard!
Just the thing I was hoping for! My car gets a free car wash now!

The Non-Facebook Post #95

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iMac, You Hurt!

Owww!


iMac, what sharp edges you have!
Cut my finger against the bottom edge as I was cleaning the desk surface below.

Owwwwwwww!

Saturday, 23 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #94

The Long-Distance Driving Diaries

1. So, I've seen this road sign in the BMV manual I diligently read to absorb as much as I can to be a safe driver  -





This was one of those signs that I thought I would never ever come across while driving. Well, on my most recent long-distance road trips, I did come across this road sign on country roads.

Then again, I thought the sign is there but it might not actually mean anything or have a purpose in today's age. BUT, on my road trip today passing through country roads and this sign, I saw a buggy - an actual horse-drawn buggy - in traffic on the opposite side of the road.
How cool!


2. Driving across these same country roads, after the exciting buggy-spotting, there was this other minor incident. A driver of a truck had his vehicle parked on the opposite road shoulder. He jumped out, ran across the road, picked up a water bottle from my side of the road shoulder and ran back to his vehicle. All while I was hurtling toward him at 55 mph and about 500 feet away. Gosh!

3. Long-distance driving is hard on one's bottom!

4. I think I'm a more aware driver when I've suspended thinking and just go with the flow. Sigh - I don't know what to make of this.

Thursday, 21 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #93

I gave my very first Toastmasters speech! It was titled "My Many Identities."
I have to admit, it was a lot more relaxed than several other talks I have given.
And only two "uh"s! Yay!

Here's the content of my speech so that the answer to the ever-annoying "about yourself" question is recorded here for posterity. This is who I am, at this point in my life.

"Good afternoon, everyone!

Now, did you have an opportunity to listen to Laverne Cox - famous tv actress and transgender personality - talk at BSU? I want to quote from her talk. This particular line helped me resolve that eternal question in my head - who am I?

There are so many different components at the intersections of your multiple identities. Recognize them. Own them.

Also, there's a person I really admire - Natasha Badhwar. She's a filmmaker and media-trainer. This is what she has to say, 

Adopt every identity you run into. Be 

everyone. There are so many selves to be.

I have multiple identities and many selves. I will describe 3 selves of mine, 3 aspects of my personality today.

First, I am a family person. I value family life. There is a famous Indian film actress, Priyanka Chopra. Here is what she says,  

Keep your family close and then nothing else will matter.

I believe in this. I grew up in an extended-family setting with grandparents, aunts and uncles and cousins. Now, being far away from family, I cherish the moments I had with them. I think family brings diversity to your viewpoints and perspectives. It also brings variety to the dinner table! I love potatoes. Living all by myself now, I find that my dinner every other night consists of fried potatoes. With family, my uncle loves ridge gourd and my grandmom loves tomatoes! We ate everyone's favourite dishes at the dining table and got to experience different tastes. Variety is the spice of life!

The second aspect of my personality is that I look at the world through rose-tinted glasses. I am a dreamer and an idealist. Have you watched the Lord of the Rings movies? In the first movie, the camera pans to show Frodo sitting under a tree reading a book as Gandalf rides up the road. That is me - like Frodo. I love staying lost in  my thoughts, staring into sunset skies and clouds and being perfectly happy all by myself. 

The third aspect of my personality is that I like to believe I am a polymath, a pluralist. Architect K.T. Ravindran said,

"There is no unilinear direction for any profession. It is far more enriching to be doing different things at the same time rather than just one thing. You become a far more wholesome professional and far more wholesome human being because of the range of issues and the people you have an opportunity to respond to. That plurality of experience perhaps is the purpose of life or one of the purposes."

I have an undergraduate degree in Architecture and graduate degrees in Landscape Architecture and Information and Communication Sciences  - as different as chalk and cheese. I believe that you should pursue all your interests, you have one life after all. So, I decided to pursue all my fields of interests. 

These are the three aspects of my personality I chose to talk about to you today because I feel these are the most important in my life at this point. 

Looking to the future - what will I be, who will I be? I do know that I will be the best version of myself. Whether that be expanding my skill sets, broadening my education, becoming a better person, I know that I will keep learning and growing.

So, that's it. I hope that gave you a snapshot of who I am.

Thank you."

(Well, I did not include Architect K.T. Ravindran's quote in my Toastmasters speech. I included it here because it defines my paradigm.)

Tuesday, 19 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #92

I'm dressed in two layers of clothing. This is the most underdressed I've been in 49 F temperatures.
Let's dig out those North Face gloves...

Sunday, 17 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #91

"Jaan gadaa rehta, paani wahin aake therta."
Hyderabadi profundity. 
Question being, am I the gadaa?

The Non-Facebook Post #90

Yaar, yeh Bollywood sentimentality chod dene ka faisla kar liya hai. Itne saal toh har baat ko sentimental nazariye se dekhte hue jiye. Ab thoda light lete hue ji ke dekhenge.

Friday, 15 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #89

Aadhi duniya ko hamne hi bataa diya hamare baare mein aur baaki aadhi ko baaki saare logon ne!

The Non-Facebook Post #88

"I'm here, I can help!"
"You're such a trooper!"

Yay!

Thursday, 14 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #87

"Catch them while they're good. Praise the positive behaviour that we want to reinforce."

-Dr. Ivan Joseph's TEDxRyersonU Talk

The Non-Facebook Post #86

Why is there caffeine in my hot chocolate, darn it?!

Tuesday, 12 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #85

is cooking while singing at the top of her voice and dancing like there's no tomorrow!
A moment of pure joy in the midst of everyday life that comes with everyday heartache. "Koi atka hua hai pal shayad. Waqt mein pad gaya hai bal shayad. Dil agar hai to dard bhi hoga. Iska nahi koi hal shayad."

Thursday, 7 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #84

I really want to go "home" this work day. What's 'home" at this point? I don't know. Maybe "home" right now is some place that's not "here'.

The Non-Facebook Post #83

Dang, is it hot or is it hot?!

It's just 84 degrees Fahrenheit.
Just.
Because I've spent my entire life minus the last four years in 110 degrees Fahrenheit temperatures. Now, after a duration of spending four years in temperate climes, my mind starts sending me signals of discomfort - the "ugh" sort - when I begin to experience any temperatures that come close to my home tropical environment. Which leads me to think, "is it this easy to get unused to the environment you grew up in and get used to an environment you've only recently begun spending some time in?"
Which in turn leads me to think that it's just that old matter - "getting used to". You're most comfortable with whatever you're most used to. Which means that if you're fairly comfortable with new things - things that you are not used to, things that you've never done before - you're more open to the idea of change. You're more open-minded.
I'll just let that thought brew in my mind for a while...

The Non-Facebook Post #82

I tried! I tried and tried! But this is one of those things I can't do - I just cannot wear nail polish!
For one, my nails feel weird and suffocated, as though they can't breathe with that coating of paint. And then, the paint is a clever subterfuge that my nails use to grow to uncomfortable lengths. (Well, an uncomfortable length in my case is just a couple millimeters over my finger tip, that's all it takes!)
Also, my nail shape is more suited to the neatly trimmed look with short nails. I'm not the growing-nails-elegantly type of person. I do admire girls with lovely, long, well-groomed nails.
Me, no!
Just short, neatly trimmed nails like we had back in St. Ann's will do! (When house captains would check our nails as we filed out in an orderly queue from our morning Assembly after Our Father and hymns, making our way to classes).

That was a clutch of thoughts!

Oh, wait. Also, skinny jeans. What is with them? They look great. They make the person wearing them look great. But it's so painful to bend your knees or fold your legs in them. Sitting criss-cross applesauce is next to impossible. So tight!

The Non-Facebook Post #81

Kambakht parking lot hamesha full rehta!

Wednesday, 6 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #80

How Bird, how?!
How do you manage to do your business on my car, especially when I've made sure I'm not parked under a tree to have made it unavoidable for you.
Oh, the constant splatters!

Friday, 1 May 2015

The Non-Facebook Post #79

" On soft Spring nights I'll stand in the yard under the stars - Something good will come out of all things yet - And it will be golden and eternal just like that - There's no need to say another word." - Jack Kerouac

We'll walk the warm Spring nights, under an inky black sky, under the stars. And it will be you and I, in a dream. Through a  grassy, rocky meadow enveloped in a delicious darkness. A darkness that needs no words, because a touch is all that's needed. And this will be goodness, golden and etetnal. You and I. In a dream.

Thank God for Kerouac!

"Writing has given me a space to express my innocence. No other world has any use for it." - Natasha Badhwar.

Thank God for Badhwar!

Blessings, Magic and Beauty

  As I lay here in a darkened bedroom with my little fairy sleeping on me, my mind wanders to this time last year and the months that follow...